Inappropriate Comment

Safety & Power
Trigger / When to Use

Off-color joke or biased remark lands in the room

Quick Response

Hold on - I want to pause on that comment. [Name], can you say what you meant? Here's how it may have landed. Everyone belongs in this room.

Detailed Tips
  • Pause immediately - silence normalizes harm
  • Address impact while assuming good intent; educate, don't shame
  • Handle the norm in the group, follow up privately if they're defensive
  • Anchor to ground rules, not personal judgment
Prevention

Make "respectful of backgrounds and identities" an explicit ground rule at kickoff

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Inappropriate Comment - Front
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Inappropriate Comment - Back
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